Your sensuality is obvious in the voice you use and what you say. At the beginning of relationships the sound of laughter and a certain tone of voice telegraph interest. The tone to intrigue is warm and if possible deep, both on the phone and in person. In general, men and women respond more positively to deeper rather than higher pitched voices.

Some potential partners don’t say much. Others are very talkative. Whatever your style, don’t talk a lot about very personal matters early on. Remain a little mysterious. This is sure to intrigue your friend. Leave him or her wanting to know more. Women are most likely to spill the beans on childhood, previous relationships, details of how they got on well with their fathers but not their mothers, etc. within the first hour of meeting someone.

Stop it. Ask questions. Allow silences. It gives the pleasure of quiet times. Overcome the desire to fill silences. Let them be. Nobody wants to be on the receiving end of a barrage of information. While you are so busy talking you’re not listening.

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