Fast movers, fast talkers, fast decision makers are generally fast lovers. Creative thinkers are generally creative lovers. Slow talkers, movers and decision makers are generally slower lovers. And remember, they always say ‘watch the quiet ones’.

Who’s to say you can’t mix these? Variety, and stretching your comfort zone around sexual behaviour is good for you and your romance.

Being more proactive in your job, your home, your life and now your love life will really pay off. It is the key. Do a little daydreaming about some wonderful sensual experiences. Good sex begins with good sensuality.

What do you really want in your sexual experience? More variety for you in bed? Give more variety. More passion from a partner? Be more passionate. More time spent in foreplay? Work out a way you can do it. Offer to massage your partner or have a bubble bath or dress in sexy clothes. In other words, be proactive instead of reactive. And later, much later, not in bed, tell your partner what you really like.

It’s up to you to teach people how to treat you. It’s never too late to start.

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