Ah, the excitement of the romantic chase. The fantasies, the lust, the yearnings and heightened insecurities. Your body becomes more sensitive to sounds, smells and certainly to touch. You see the object of your interest through not only rose coloured glasses but also through a gold tinged magnifying glass. You remember what all of this [...]

Your sensuality is obvious in the voice you use and what you say. At the beginning of relationships the sound of laughter and a certain tone of voice telegraph interest. The tone to intrigue is warm and if possible deep, both on the phone and in person. In general, men and women respond more positively [...]

Fast movers, fast talkers, fast decision makers are generally fast lovers. Creative thinkers are generally creative lovers. Slow talkers, movers and decision makers are generally slower lovers. And remember, they always say ‘watch the quiet ones’. Who’s to say you can’t mix these? Variety, and stretching your comfort zone around sexual behaviour is good for [...]

THE CHOICE OF CLOTHING AND COLOURS RELATES TO WHAT YOU HAVE IN YOUR WARDROBE, WHERE YOU ARE GOING, THE CLIMATE AND TIME OF YEAR AS WELL AS THE IMAGE YOU WISH TO PROJECT. ABOVE ALL THIS, YOU MUST BE COMFORTABLE SO YOU CAN CONCENTRATE ON YOUR FASCINATING PARTNER AND NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT TIGHT [...]

Use the concept of ‘less is more’ when considering accessories, flamboyance and pattern. If there is too much texture, pattern and jewellery to distract your new friend, how can he or she concentrate on you? Take a look in a full-length mirror to check the balance of accessories and colour. And what about your new [...]

Arthritis becomes much more common as we get older. Because of pain and stiffness in your joints, any movement can be a problem. Depending on which joints are involved, you might need to adjust your technique to make it more comfortable. For example, if a man has arthritis in his lower back or hips, the [...]

For people who have never talked about their sexual relationship with each other, it is doubly difficult because the first step in solving any sexual problem is acknowledging it and then trying to explore ways around it. Otherwise they may never discover what their partner really wants or would like to try. People with a [...]

Men go through fears about their new role as a father. Not many people talk about what they expect of each other as parents until the situation arises. This may be the first time that a couple discovers they have very different attitudes to childrearing. Questions like ‘Who will get up at night if the [...]

In any stressful situation, one of the first casualties is libido and the loss of sexual interest is pretty obvious when all attention is on your reproductive function, so it takes a special effort to keep the romance in the relationship. His sexuality and self-worth ate challenged, as the distinction between his roles of sperm [...]

The issue of longterm relationships is a highly complex one, and deserves the volumes written about it in its own right. But without a doubt, making the decision to enter into a longterm relationship makes you confront your attitudes to sexuality and partnerships not only in terms of passion, but also in terms of practicality. [...]